“To him, all good things – trout as well as eternal salvation – came by grace; and grace comes by art; and art does not come easy” Norman Maclean, A River Runs Through It.

A fisherman’s journey

Learning to fly fish is a continuous process, but embarking on this new adventure for me was a rollercoaster of challenges and emotions. Despite past setbacks, fly fishing continues to open new doors in my life, allowing me to travel to different places, experience new things, and bond with friends and family. Fly fishing has taught me to overcome challenges and appreciate nature in a greater way.

How my fly fishing adventures began

It was the early summer of last year when I dragged my dad into our car and convinced him to drive from the suburbs of Maryland, through the mountains of Pennsylvania, to the cool waters of a small limestone stream. Our targets, which had been on my mind since we were introduced to the idea, were brown and rainbow trout.

Earlier that month, we bought two rods, two reels, lines, leaders, and an assortment of flies to help us catch these elusive species. With high expectations and our cameras ready, we arrived at the spot, stepped into our waders, tied a “buggy” fly onto our line, and entered the flowing water. My dad and I proceeded to catch absolutely nothing, tripping over rocks and falling into the water several times. With our hopes low and our feet soggy, we loaded everything into the car and drove home.

Back to the drawing board

Over the next few days, I did some research and discovered how truly difficult it is to catch a trout on a fly. I learned that a fisherman has to take into consideration the depth, speed, and temperature of the water, the type of insect that is hatching, along with the time and weather. I discovered the vast array of fly patterns and casting techniques used while fishing. I also discovered how much work was cut out for me if I was ever going to catch a trout on a fly.

After a week or so of continued learning and research, we mustered up the courage to return to the same stream, now a little more informed. It was a sunny bluebird day, and the drive through the green forests and mountains was breathtaking. We arrived at the spot and noticed an old orange pickup truck parked by the stream. During the earlier trip, we had seen no one fishing, so this came as a slight surprise to us. My dad parked the car, and we began what we thought was going to be another grueling day.

Learning from the locals

After about an hour or two on the water, we headed back to the car, without any luck, for some water and snacks. At the car, my dad and I were greeted by an older man sitting on one of the picnic benches scattered around the parking area. He was enjoying the beautiful day, peacefully sitting and appreciating the environment around him. We started talking and found out that he had a successful morning, catching several nice-sized trout.

Curious and desperate for success, I asked what he had used, and the man showed us a strange fly we had never seen before. He made it himself by simply taking a few of his dog’s shed hairs and tying them onto a small barbless hook. I told him that I had been frustrated by the whole fly-fishing experience from this morning and last week.

He explained to me that fly fishing was more than just catching fish. It was an experience, not just an action. He told me to slow down on the water and to appreciate my surroundings. My new friend gave us a few of his dog hair flies, then got in his truck and drove off. After that odd interaction and with the new flies in my arsenal, we ate some trail mix and got back in the stream.

Back in the water

After half an hour, I came across a new patch of water that curved gently with the help of high-cut banks. There were a few large boulders toward the start of the run before the water gradually got deeper until it leveled off under an overhanging branch. After studying the different types of water at home, I knew this area would be fishy.

I cast the dog hair fly just above the large boulders and watched as my indicator drifted down a rifle. As my indicator passed under the overhanging branch, it jumped down, and I immediately set the hook. My rod bent as I stumbled backward, surprised that something was on the other end of my line.

Landing the prize and finding the beauty

I reeled in and walked closer to the shore so I could have a safer place to net the fish. As it swam closer, I could see that he was a decent-sized rainbow trout. When the fish was within arm’s reach, I fumbled for my net and scooped him up. After all that excitement, I was ecstatic that I had just landed a trout.

I picked him up and watched as he glistened in the sunlight. The trout was slightly green and pink, with intricate black dots running from head to tail. I took the old man’s fly out of his mouth and wished that I could thank him for his help. I submerged the fish back into the water and watched as he swam off.

And at that moment, something dawned upon me as I thought back to what the old man had told me. All around me, there was beauty. I looked up and saw bright green leaves glistening in the sunlight. I looked down and saw the cool stream warping and bubbling its way around large boulders. I looked into the distance and saw great, mighty mountains overlooking the valley I stood in. I began to acknowledge and appreciate all of it.

What fly fishing has taught me

Over the next few months, as I progressed as a fly fisherman, I experienced all kinds of great opportunities that fly fishing gifted me. I experienced new and unique things outdoors in nature, like the sudden exhilarating feeling of a fish hitting your fly. I traveled to new places around the northeast, opening my eyes to the regional area. While fishing or looking in local fly shops, I met many mentors who helped me not only grow my fishing skills but also my character. I connected to my dad’s past in the Florida Keys last summer, fishing the same flats he fished as a kid.

Most importantly, fly fishing connected me to nature. There is no other feeling like standing on a cool limestone stream, surrounded by mountains and trees, while the sun rises. It’s the type of feeling that gets your hairs standing and sends chills through your chest. All technologies and modern-day stresses vanish as you bask in the awe-inspiring outdoors.

Fly fishing has allowed me to appreciate the environment and opened my eyes towards conservation. As I grow older, I want to take steps to protect the earth so my kids and grandkids can enjoy it. Learning to fly fish continues to provide new experiences and possibilities, allowing me to truly grow and discover myself.

What’s an outdoor activity that’s connected you to nature?

About the author

Jonathan is a 16-year-old outdoor adventurer and world traveler. He is an honors student and Varsity athlete at his beloved high school. Besides his love of fly fishing, he is an avid scuba diver and underwater photographer, having experienced Tiger sharks and Sperm whales and lived to tell about it! He loves mountain biking and hiking in the wilderness with his friends. He loves to write about his adventures to share with others his love and passion for nature and for our world.

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Today, Jen Barnes, South Carolina mom of three teenagers discusses her family’s mindset of “we try new things.” She touches on why it’s essential for parents to not only teach their children about trying new things, but also to be willing to try right alongside them! By trying new things, we can foster a sense of curiosity and adventure in our children, and prepare them for a lifetime of growth and learning.

My “aha” moment

What started out as a fun day excursion turned into an “aha moment” for me. I thought I was going to write an article about crabbing with kids in the Lowcountry of South Carolina. But that’s not really what this is about. Interestingly, this post morphed in my mind into the idea of writing about a mindset that I feel is imperative to raising confident, capable kids – the “we try new things mindset.”

As the mom, I set the example for my kids. And while trying new things isn’t always at the top of my priority list, I don’t want my kids to be fearful or unwilling to try something new. I want them to be excited to discover, explore, learn, and embrace the unknown. I want them to be curious and up for a challenge.

But that means that I have to practice what I preach! If I’m going to encourage my children to give something new a try, I’m going to have to do it too. I need to show them that it’s never too late to learn new things…even in your 40s. They need to see that it’s hard for me, too. They need to see me struggle. They have to see me nervous. And they have to see me get through it and feel the experience is worth it. 
So, let me tell you about a recent adventure…

Trying new things…crabbing

A few months ago, I reached out to a special woman who I had been following on Instagram for about a year. Tia Clark was showcasing her crabbing experiences on the docks of Charleston, SC, and I was enamored. What a great idea for kids to learn how to do something quintessentially coastal!

Crabbing seemed like the perfect outdoor activity to try with the kids and write about. The combination of outside time, sea life, and spending quality time with my teenager was going to make for the perfect writing assignment. 

You don’t know what you don’t know

6:00 a.m. came very early on our day off school, but we had to hit the road so we could get down to the lowcountry in time for our crabbing lesson with Tia. I had my 14-year-old son and his best buddy with me, ready for our crabbing adventure.

The first question they had was what we were going to do with Tia. Honest answer – I had no idea. We were going crabbing…that was all I knew! Sometimes it’s hard not to know the answers when your kids ask questions. But, you don’t know what you don’t know. However, you can always learn by trying something new! 

I knew that I had to bring a South Carolina saltwater fishing license with me, but I wasn’t even sure what that meant. As a group, we later learned the money that comes from the licenses goes directly to partner organizations that are tangibly working to improve the waterways of South Carolina. For example, the SCORE program allows volunteers to help build manufactured wire reefs, which assist in habitat enhancement and shoreline stabilization. See! We were already learning something new!

You never know where trying new things will lead you

When we arrived at the docks to meet up with Art (Tia’s best friend and team member), we put our extra layers on to brace ourselves against the chilly wind. As we introduced ourselves, it become obvious that not one person in the group had ever been crabbing before. Looks like we were all trying new things on that Monday morning! 

Tia and her team began to describe and explain what we should expect that morning. She wove in her own personal journey to the crabbing docks. After years of working in the restaurant and bar scene, putting in late hours, smoking cigarettes, and generally not taking care of herself, her health began to take a very negative turn. The lack of sleep and overall neglect had caught up with her body and her mind. Her previous working conditions became even more difficult with a restricted diet and new medical advice. 

It turns out that a simple invitation can change the course of your life. In Tia’s case, that is exactly what happened. A family member asked her to join him on the docks to do some crabbing. Ironically, although Tia had been born and raised in Charleston, SC, she had never been crabbing before.

Guess what…she loved it. She not only loved being outside, but she caught her own healthy dinner! So, she went back and did it again. And again. What began as an invitation to try something new became a central part of her life.

Before she knew it, people were asking her to take them along to teach them how to crab. Her passion and enthusiasm are infectious. She even got the two teenage boys to invest! 

Results of the “we try new things” mindset

We absolutely loved our crabbing experience and learned so much. However, I’m sure it won’t surprise you that we are not starting our own crabbing business! The best part about trying new things is that you get to test out what you may or may not become genuinely interested in for future hobbies or passions. How would you ever know whether you like doing something if you never try it?

We sincerely hope to go crabbing again because it is such a fun family activity, especially for those who live on or near the coast. The knowledge we gained was useful in giving us the confidence to do it again on our own. 

Using travel and trips to try new things

We love using travel as a way to put our “we try new things” mindset work! There’s always something new and interesting to try when you’re in a new location. Sometimes it takes a bit of research and planning, but it’s worth the extra effort.

On our travels, we’ve tried other new things like surfing, food tours, walking tours, snorkeling excursions, fishing charters, art tours, museum tours, cooking classes, and others. Each of these experiences left an impression, taught us things, and provided us with amazing memories. Every time we try new things, we build up bravery and confidence in our children. We give them the courage to realize that trying new things, while sometimes scary, is also really fun. 

You don’t have to love the new things you try

But let me say, that just because you try something new doesn’t mean you need to love it and continue doing it. You can try fly fishing without it needing to become your next hobby. You can try surfing and decide it’s just not the sport for you!

I often think about some of the interests my kids and I have had over the years. Those interests developed because we tried new things and gave ourselves a chance to experience something new. And there are plenty of things that we’ve tried once and never feel like we need to do again! But we’re still glad we tried.

The biggest lesson, though, is that you are not stuck. You’re not too old to try new things. You can try new things at any point in life, so why not teach your kids early in life to have this mindset?

A note about trying new things with a guide

I want to give a little plug to booking tours, guides, and excursions. If you want to try something new, please consider booking a guide or a tour, or an excursion with local experts that know what they’re doing and can teach you. This is how these people make a living, and it contributes to the local economy. They are usually experts in their activity and not only know what they’re doing but know how to teach others. They have local expertise and experience that will help enrich your experience well beyond trying this new thing on your own. What better way to try new things than to have someone who is a professional teach you how to do them? 

Other adventures to inspire you to try new things

• Next winter, why not try cross-country skiing or downhill skiing? 
• As spring temps arrive, how about trying mountain biking, golf, or fly fishing?
• This summer, I know you will be looking for ways to cool down, so why not try kayaking, or stand-up paddleboarding, or surfing?
• Want a super unique adventure? How about sailing? 

When will you next use the “we try new things” mindset?

About the author

Jen has been married to her original adventure partner, John, for 20+ years. She is a mama to 3 teenagers who, although they have busy and independent lives, love to adventure in the outdoors when they can. Jen is a native of Chicago, but has lived in South Carolina for two decades and calls it home. She’s always planning the next adventure for herself or her friends, whether near or far. Hiking, kayaking, sailing with her family, or traveling the world is all about the experience and the journey. Her extroverted nature keeps her talking and smiling with anyone she meets along the way. She’s on a mission to show other busy families that traveling with teenagers is possible and fun!

You can find Jen online in the following locations:
Instagram: @gofamilyadventure
Website: Go Family Adventure
RWMC Posts: Jen Barnes

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*This post was sponsored by Destin-Fort Walton Beach. Activities and accommodations were exchanged for review purposes. All opinions expressed and all photos contained herein belong to the author.

Traveling with kids

There’s something both magical and exhausting about traveling to a new place with kids. Yes, traveling with kids can mean endless whining, interruptions to your daily routine, and stress on mom to make the most out of the trip. But, it can also be an opportunity to make life-long memories, cultivate of love of adventure, and take some healthy risks by trying new things. Travel has been proven to have significant benefits for everyone in the family. So while it’s exhausting, it’s also totally worth it. 

Traveling to a new place and partaking in exciting new experiences with your kids is an amazing way to bond with your family. Our busy schedules often make it difficult for families to spend much quality time together on a day-to-day basis. But when you travel, you put aside your typical responsibilities and commitments so that you can be truly present with one another. 

Travel also allows you to learn new things about one another and try out exciting experiences that you otherwise might not have had the chance to. Experiencing new things together with those you love and trust helps boost your kids’ confidence and fosters independence. And getting outside in a place that looks and feels different than it does at home gives your children a whole new appreciation for the natural world and the diversity of life. 

Traveling with family can be one of the most rewarding adventures you can have together. However, you do not need to travel all over the country or world to provide your kids with the benefits that family vacations generate. Sometimes, adventure is closer than you think!

Exploring Destin-Fort Walton Beach

My kids and I recently had the opportunity to spend some time in and around Destin-Fort Walton Beach, Florida, to check out some of the amazing things to do outside with kids. I’ve been curious about the destination for years, but this was my first time visiting and really getting to know the area. Boy, am I glad we did! We were blown away by the incredible outdoor adventure activities and unique experiences Destin-Fort Walton Beach has to offer families. 

If you’re unfamiliar with the area, let me take a minute to set the stage. Destin-Fort Walton Beach is located on the Florida Panhandle, between Pensacola and Panama City Beach. The city of Destin is located on a peninsula separating the Gulf of Mexico from Choctawhatchee Bay. The city of Fort Walton Beach is located on the mainland, just west of Destin.

The Gulf coast beaches are famous for their powdery, sugar-white sand and glistening emerald waters. The sand is made from finely ground quartz crystals that literally squeak beneath your bare feet! This gives the water in the area that famous blue-green hue that will take your breath away. On the other side, you’ll find Choctawhatchee Bay, a calm saltwater oasis perfect for wildlife and perfect for exploring. 

Pack your trip with “Little Adventures”

We’ve talked about how important it is to travel with your kids and try new things. But, when you’re exploring a new area, how do you find the best outdoor activities and family-friendly experiences? Researching activities can be time-consuming, and the number of options for guides, places, and rental shops can be overwhelming. That’s one of the reasons why we love it when destinations take it upon themselves to help families find unique location-specific outdoor activities in their location – because they know the area best! 

Destin-Fort Walton Beach has done just that! They’re committed to helping families get outside in the area and see all the amazing things they have to offer. They’ve made exploring Destin-Fort Walton Beach with kids fun and easy!

Working with local moms, they’ve put together bite-sized family-friendly “Little Adventures” that feature unique experiences for families to get out on the water. It’s “done-for-you” outdoor adventure planning, so you just have to show up and have fun! The Little Adventures activities are things like deep-sea fishing, kayaking, stand-up paddleboarding, tidepooling, dolphin cruises, sailing, snorkeling, surfing, camping, and more! 

Don’t know what Little Adventure you want to do? All the available Little Adventure activities are searchable by price, age of your children, interest, and how much time they take. Or live chat with a local mom, right there on the website and get tailored recommendations for family fun and all your questions answered. You could also check out their Little Adventures map to see what activities are close to you. Kudos to Destin-Fort Walton Beach for making getting outside with kids super easy for moms! 

Outdoor activities for families in Destin-Fort Walton Beach

The combination of both Gulf Coast beach and inner bay means that the Destin-Fort Walton Beach area is the perfect location for water adventures of all kinds! And that’s exactly what my water babies wanted to do most. Of course, we highly recommend that you spend some time on the pristine beaches, playing in the white sand and emerald green waves. But, there’s so much more to this area than just beautiful beaches. It’s packed with outdoor adventures for everyone in your family, regardless of age, interest, or budget. 

We had the opportunity to try out a few of the best outdoor Little Adventures the area has to offer. Needless to say, we were seriously impressed! There truly was something for all of us. My daughter fell madly in love with the white sand beaches and crystal clear water. My son took advantage of all the fish and native wildlife in the area. And I was blown away by the natural beauty of the areas we explored that were off the beaten path. 

For every adventure we did, there were ten others we wanted to do (we’ll have to come back)! The Destin-Fort Walton Beach area truly is a magical family-friendly location. Here are some of the highlights from our trip that we’d love to recommend to you.

Fishing with kids in Destin

Let’s start with our family’s favorite outdoor activity…fishing.

Fishing with your kids is not only a fun bonding activity, but it’s also an incredible way to teach them about nature and conservation. Fishing lets you create amazing memories with your kids, filled with action and adventure. And, from the “circle of life” lesson that comes with using live bait to the “leave no trace” principle of cleaning up after people, fishing is a way that parents can instill a love of nature and respect for the environment from a very early age. 

It’s nearly impossible to talk about Destin, Florida, without mentioning fishing. The area started out as a small fishing village built around the Destin Harbor and is now home to the world’s largest charter fishing fleet. The fishing boats line one side of the harbor from end to end and provide a livelihood for many locals, as well as adventure and entertainment for visitors. 

With a reputation as “The World’s Luckiest Fishing Village,” fishing is obviously one of the top outdoor family activities in the Destin-Fort Walton Beach area. Hundred of boats are available to rent for both deep-sea and inshore fishing. If you want help catching the big one, local guides are available to show you the ropes and get you in the right place with the right bait. But, a do-it-yourself attitude will also suffice, and your family can catch tuna, mackerel, cobia, snapper, and many other species right off the shore (or pier) in various locations throughout the area. 

Deep-sea fishing with kids

At the very top of our list of “must do” activities in Destin was deep-sea fishing. As I mentioned, we’re a fishing family, but deep-sea fishing is not something that we’ve had the opportunity to try (being landlocked makes it a bit difficult). But in Destin, deep-sea fishing is an experience all of itself! 

There are hundreds of charter fishing boats available to take your family fishing in the area, making deep-sea fishing in Destin-Fort Walton Beach with kids a great choice. And while you can certainly fish from the shore, deep-sea fishing is definitely something to try. Most charters offer half or full-day trips; we recommend starting out with a half-day trip if you have kids younger than 10. 

Hiring a chartered fishing boat will give you a lot of advantages over going it on your own. Experienced captains will know all the top fishing spots, be able to supply you with bait, poles, lures, and other necessities (as well as fishing licenses), and coach you on how to catch and land some massive fish! Most boats have bathrooms and air-conditioned cabins so that you can escape the heat on a warm day. And the best part…a great captain will take care of all.the.things, so you don’t have to worry about the details and can actually enjoy your outing! 

Fishing with Captain Brandy of Disciple Ship

We highly recommend hiring a fishing captain that’s good with kids and knows how to get them on the fish. Luckily, we hit a home run with Caption Brandy of the Disciple Ship for our deep-sea fishing Little Adventure. We met Brandy at her boat in HarborWalk Village in Destin bright and early on a Sunday morning. A mom of 5 and the daughter of a Destin fishing captain, she not only knows her stuff, but was absolutely fantastic with the kids. We went over the basics of what to expect and how to stay safe before heading out into the Gulf to get our fishing on! 

The first stop of the adventure was to load up on bait. I’ll tell you right now…bait fishing was a blast! Every dip of your line into the water resulted in pulling up 2-5 shiny little fish (and battling the pelicans over them). We were catching fish faster than we could pop them off the line! We caught all kinds of little fish (and even a squid!) and listened intently as Brandy told us about what we were catching. If your kids are into fast-action fishing and learning about various fish species, they’ll love this part of the experience. 

Getting on the fish

After you’ve loaded up with bait, it’s time to head out into the Gulf to fish. Captain Brandy immediately put us on the fish and pretty soon we were reeling in fish after fish. Our catch included red snapper, blackfin tuna, remora, triggerfish, and mahi. I was super impressed with how hard these fish can fight and the resulting strength and determination my 10-year old demonstrated in getting them to the boat. Yes, we missed a few big ones (including what we think was a huge grouper and possibly a shark or two), but we ended up with a great catch and huge smiles on our faces.

The reality of adventuring with kids

Here at RWMC, we pride ourselves in being honest about our experiences (good and bad) so that we paint a realistic picture of how tough parenting outdoor kids can be. Traveling with kids and trying new things can be hard, and the adventure doesn’t always go as you expect. We still think it’s worth it to try (1000% worth it), but we also want you to know that it doesn’t always go smoothly (even for us), and misadventures happen. 

Unfortunately, three of the four kids did not feel great on the boat. We took Dramamine before we left, made sure we had breakfast, brought plenty of water and snacks, and spent a lot of time staring at the horizon, but it wasn’t enough. Halfway into our fishing experience, we had to head back to shore to drop off sick kids. It broke my heart and theirs. It’s hard to see kids not feeling well, and they were all so disappointed not to be able to finish out the fishing trip. It was a tough decision but the right one. We split up, and three of the kids went back to the hotel to play on the beach (and felt totally fine once they were onshore), and I stayed with the kid that felt fine and continued fishing. 

Be flexible; expect the unexpected

It wasn’t what we wanted or expected, but I think we did the best we could in being flexible. Sometimes that’s all you can do in the situation. Sometimes adventures don’t go as planned, so being willing to make accommodations and roll with the punches can make a huge difference.

Captain Brandy was so kind about the situation and understanding. She made sure my son got as much of an amazing deep sea experience as he could, with extra attention and lots of encouragement, and hands-on training. And the other kids had a blast playing on the beach and having some fruity frozen drinks. Of course, we were all disappointed that deep-sea fishing didn’t work out for everyone, but luckily, there are so many amazing things to do in Destin-Fort Walton Beach with kids, that the alternatives are still pretty fantastic. 

Destin Fishing Rodeo

The Destin Fishing Rodeo is a fishing competition that lasts the entire month of October. Originally started to bring some additional tourism to the area, it helps extend the tourist season into the fall and attracts fishermen and fisherwomen from around the world! Today, anyone can register to enter the competition, and there are multiple prizes awarded daily and monthly for the largest catch in each of the specified categories. 

By chartering a boat, we were automatically entered into the Fishing Rodeo! (If you don’t charter a boat, you can still pay to register in one of the other categories and fish by kayak, SUP, private boat, or from the shore.) Each day, from 10 am until 7 pm, there are daily weigh-ins at AJ’s Seafood & Oyster Bar in HarborWalk Village. The biggest fish make the daily leaderboard and qualify to win a cash prize!

The best part is that every child who enters a fish in the Destin Fishing Rodeo that weighs one pound or more gets a rod and reel, and a certificate for framing! We were so excited to take our biggest fish to the weigh station and get entered in the competition. While he didn’t catch anything too big, my son still made the leaderboard and stayed there until the end of the day (when another kid’s catch overtook his). He didn’t even care that he didn’t win; he was just so excited to be a part of the whole experience.

And what an experience it was! People were packed around the weigh station, watching the catch come in. The giant leaderboard was filled with some seriously impressive numbers. The announcers were making jokes, drinks were being passed around, and there was so much fun and excitement in the air. It was really something to see! 

Clean, catch & cook

But the fun doesn’t end there. After our catch was weighed and recorded, it was time to clean the fish! Part of our fishing experience included getting to eat the fresh seafood that we caught, which we couldn’t do until it was cleaned and ready. Captian Brandy expertly showed my son how to clean the fish and got him involved in every aspect of the process. He loved taking care of his catch and it gave him so much pride to bag it all up and drop it off at East Pass Seafood, where they cooked it for us! 

Talk about delicious! East Pass Seafood & Oyster House offers a “Hook & Cook” option for anyone that brings in their fresh catch. They’ll cook the fish for you – blackened, fried, or seared – and pair it with one of their amazing sides per person. We choose to get our fish seared, and accompanied by grits, corn, fries, and mashed potatoes. It was incredible! There’s something truly fantastic about eating fish you caught yourself just hours ago in the open air, as you sit by the water and watch the boats come it. What an experience!

HarborWalk Village

Even if it’s not October during the Fishing Rodeo, the HarborWalk Village in Destin is worth checking out! The harbor is the active hub of the World’s Luckiest Fishing Village and the center of it all. Charter boats of every size are docked along the harbor and give the area the energetic vibe of an active fishing community. The village is packed with restaurants, boutiques, adventure activities (ziplining and bungee trampoline jumping, to name a few), bars, shops, and so much more. You can also book a fishing charter, dolphin cruise, a buccaneer pirate cruise, rent jet skis and wave runners, and more! 

There’s usually live music playing from somewhere along the HarborWalk Village boardwalk, fish being cleaned, and seagulls flying overhead. It’s a great place to people-watch or chat with fishermen and boat captains. The kids loved the hustle and bustle of this vibrant fun area and begged to try everything there was to offer, from a little train that cruises through the streets to frozen lemonade and cotton candy. I loved that many of the restaurants have open air patios overlooking the harbor where you can relax and watch the boats come in and out of the harbor while sipping on a drink and enjoying fresh seafood and a gorgeous sunset! 

Pontoon rental for the day

One of the best ways to really maximize your time on the water and get an up-close look at the entire Destin-Fort Walton Beach area is to explore the Choctawhatchee Bay by boat. Whether you choose a canoe, kayak, SUP, or pontoon, getting out in the Bay on a watercraft is a unique opportunity to explore the area’s gorgeous coastline and become familiar with the local wildlife. 

We spent a glorious October day exploring the Bay in a pontoon we rented from Beach Weekend. Beach Weekend has a fleet of spacious pontoons that provide plenty of space and shade for your adventure. They hold up to 12 passengers and can be rented for full or half days. Upon check-in, you go over the safety rules and get boarded on your boat. Once you’re in the Bay, there’s so much to explore! You can make your way through the Bay observing wildlife or check out one of the many private sugar-white beaches. 

Exploring via pontoon

What I loved about this adventure was the freedom it gave us to explore the area in a whole new way. With the entire day before us and a full tank of fuel, we got to do a little bit of everything that everyone on the boat enjoyed. We cruised around with the sun on our cheeks and wind in our hair. We stopped to let the boys do a little fishing in areas they felt were extra fishy. The girls splashed in the cool water and had a blast jumping off the boat. We explored the tidepools on the deserted Spectre Island and caught crab, minnows, and shrimp. We picnicked on the beach, relaxed with our toes in the sand, and enjoyed the kids’ squeals and excitement as they discovered another treasure. 

Spectre Island with Kids

The pontoon was such a lovely way to get familiar with Destin Fort Walton beach with kids and allowed us to explore places we wouldn’t otherwise have the opportunity to check out. One of the best places to explore by boat is Spectre Island. Located just minutes west of Beach Weekend is a deserted little island in the middle of the sound. What started off as a dredging project by the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers years ago, is now one of the area’s best hangout spots by boat and the perfect place for kids to explore.

Anchor your pontoon and let the kids run wild. There are so many open-ended fun things to do here. They can swim, fish, tidepool, snorkel, spot dolphins, paddleboard, build sandcastles on the beach, or walk around and explore. The opportunities are endless for natural unstructured free play and exploration in the untouched natural habitat.

Gulfarium Marine Adventure Park

Since we’re speaking about marine life, on our last day in Destin, we spent some time exploring the Gulfarium Marine Adventure Park, which was a short walk down the beach from our hotel. Our family loves visiting aquariums, probably because we’re all obsessed with fish and marine life and passionate about preserving it.

The Gulfarium was a special treat and different from many of the aquariums we’ve been to due to their animal encounters program. This program is designed to educate and impassion guests to respect and preserve wildlife by providing unique and memorable up-close-and-personal animal encounters where you can interact with both the sea life and the caretakers. These unique encounters include holding baby alligators, feeding the sea lions, getting artwork done for you by a dolphin, lunching with the penguins, or snorkeling with sting rays! 

The Gulfarium also hosts daily dolphin and sea lion shows, which we knew we had to attend! We thought the dolphin show was one of the best things we saw at the Gulfarium. The show was both educational (even I learned quite a bit) and entertaining. The bottlenose dolphins were really impressive, and the kids absolutely loved their performance. 

More about the Gulfarium

Here are a few other things for families to note about the Gulfarium:

• • Make sure to check out the day’s schedule of chats, feedings and performances so you can plan your trip accordingly. The programs are great and you’ll want to be sure to get to each one a little early so that you can get a good spot/seat.
  • Gulfarium’s C.A.R.E. Center is a non-profit to facilitate and further coastal conservation efforts. Their specialty is sea turtles and the program has helped to rehabilitate and release hundred of sea turtles of various species found in the Gulf Coast, including Loggerhead, Green, Kemp’s ridley, and Leatherback.

• Reservations are required if you want to book an animal encounter.
• The Gulfarium is mostly outdoor and open air, right on the beach, with beautiful views.
• There’s an on-site food and drink concession stand where you can get lunch, snacks, and drinks for the family.

The best donuts in Destin-Fort Walton Beach

No vacation with kids would be complete without a little sugar, so let’s talk for a minute about some of the best donuts I’ve ever eaten. I love a good donut and would consider myself a bit of a donut snob. We love checking out local donut shops when we travel, and most of the time, the donuts are pretty good. However, every now and then, we’ll find a donut shop that blows us away, and this was one of those times. Parlor Doughnuts in Fort Walton Beach was incredible. 

Parlor Doughnuts offers their signature “layered donut,” which is different than the traditional cake or yeast style of donut. There are vegan/gluten-friendly and keto-friendly donuts, so there’s something for everyone in your family.  They also offer breakfast items such as acai bowls, avocado toast, breakfast sandwiches, and tacos. And, of course, specialty coffee. 

Before heading out on your day of adventuring in Destin-Fort Walton beach with kids, we highly recommend fueling up at Parlor Doughnuts. If you have the chance to try the S’mores donut, do it!! 

Where to stay: The Island Resort – Fort Walton Beach

With so much to do in Destin-Fort Walton Beach with kids, our days were filled with water activities and exploration, but in the evenings, the kids were thrilled just to swim in the pool and hang out at the hotel. Luckily, we stayed at The Island Resort, which is a beachfront property on Okaloosa Island, in between Destin and Fort Walton Beach.

Family-friendly amenities and activities

The Island Resort has everything we needed to hunker down and stay happy, fed, and entertained. While I love exploring and being out and about, it’s also so nice to stay in a hotel where you never have to leave, if you don’t want to! The Island Resort has multiple restaurants (and they were all delicious!), a few bars, a little travel shop with beach toys and souvenirs, two pools, a hot tub, a fitness center, laundry, and even a taco truck. They offer onsite activities during the day and evening – some of the activities offered while we were there were Harry Potter trivia, karaoke, poolside Monday night football on the giant inflatable screen, morning yoga, name-that-tune bingo, live music, and more! 

The kids loved the swimming options – not only could you swim on the beach, there’s the large Grotto Pool (unheated), a second heated outdoor pool, and hot tub. The Grotto pool has a seasonal swim-up bar inside the cave and a real-life mermaid during the summer months! It was pretty cold in the pool when we were there in October, but that certainly didn’t keep my kids from enjoying it! I loved watching the sunsets over the pier on the beach, with a boat drink in hand. 

Location, location, location

The Island Resort is ideally located within walking distance of all kinds of amazing places and activities, including the Island Pier, the Gulfarium, John Beasley Park, Gulf Islands National Seashore, Wild Willy’s Adventure Zone, boat rentals, The Boardwalk, and all kinds of amazing restaurants and shops. It’s also right on the gorgeous white sand beach, with private beachfront access, daily chair and umbrella rentals, and a beachfront bar that makes the most amazing boat drinks. 

Destin-Fort Walton Beach with kids

We hope that this post has shown you just how beautiful the Destin-Fort Walton Beach area is and how many amazing outdoor activities there are for families. Whether you’re looking for an action-packed water activity for your older kids, a toddler-friendly outing, or a relaxing planned-for-you adventure for a large family, there’s something for everyone. Be sure to check out the Little Adventures website for all the details and add a few to your itinerary.

Let us know if/when you’ll be exploring Destin-Fort Walton Beach with kids and if we can answer any of your questions! 

Additional travel resources

If you’re looking for a few more resources on the importance of traveling with kids and how to make it easier on everyone, be sure to check out the following articles:

• Taking healthy risks through outdoor adventure and travel
• 30+ screen-free road trip activities for kids
• Adventuring as a solo mom
• Road trip safety tips when traveling with kids
• Lessons learned through traveling with kids

Have we convinced you to add Destin to your family’s bucket list?

About the author

Sara McCarty is the founder of Run Wild My Child, a mom of 3, a wife, and a recovering corporate securities lawyer. She lives in St. Louis, Missouri, and is determined to raise her city kids to be as wild and feral as possible. You can usually find her family exploring a creek, fly fishing, hiking, duck hunting, camping, canoeing, biking, or geocaching. She loves to travel and showcase unique destinations with outdoor family-friendly activities. She’s passionate about reading, photography, oysters, plants, coffee, cooking, and key lime pie.

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*This post was sponsored by Visit Gulf County. All opinions expressed and all photos contained herein belong to the author.

Where is Gulf County, Florida?

Gulf County, Florida, is located in the panhandle of Florida on the Gulf of Mexico coastline. Situated just east of major tourist hotspots like Panama City Beach and Destin, Gulf County is a pristine slice of heaven. The nearest major airports to Gulf County are in Panama City Beach and Tallahassee. Both are about a two-hour drive from Gulf County. Destin is about 2.5 hours away by car.

Yes, Gulf County is a bit remote. And that’s the point! This area is surrounded by natural lands that are not developed. You won’t find spring break crowds here! You also won’t find malls, amusement parks, putt putt courses, or high-rise hotels. This section of the Gulf Coast is not overdeveloped, leaving plenty of natural beauty and space to explore. There are just enough restaurants and shops to give you options, but still remains quiet.

How’s the weather in Gulf County?

Gulf County’s weather is another reason to visit. Temperatures remain mild throughout the year, although they do experience seasons. It’s hot in the summer (as expected), but there’s usually a nice breeze on the coast, and scattered rain tends to cool the area off. In November, you can expect temperatures in the 60-degree range. When we visited in April, we had daytime temps in the low 80 degrees with bright sunshine.

Gulf County, Florida area and features

Over 244 miles of shoreline wind through Gulf County, ranging from clear waters and white sand beaches to tranquil inland passages. The largest city (and county seat) is Port St. Joe. Other areas are Cape San Blas, St. Joe Beach, and Indian Pass. Cape San Blas is a narrow stretch of land that extends out from Port St. Joe and curves around St. Joseph Bay. One of the least populated and richest ecosystems along the Florida Coastline is T.H. Sone Memorial St. Joseph Peninsula State Park, which offers 1,900 acres of tranquil beaches and hiking along two nature trails.

Where to stay in Gulf County, Florida

Your best options for accommodations in Gulf County are the many vacation home rentals you can find out on Cape San Blas. When traveling with kids (of any age), we love staying in a home equipped with a full kitchen, laundry, and space to spread out. 

We had an incredible stay in a gated neighborhood through Natural Retreats. The house was well-equipped in a beachfront neighborhood within walking distance of a gorgeous white sand beach. We loved having our own space to spread out, play games at night as a family, and prepare snacks and meals to take along for our days of adventure.

Natural Retreats also offers a rental delivery service for items such as beach chairs, umbrellas, wagons, skimboards, etc. What a joy to have these items available to rent, so you don’t have to lug them around and take up valuable packing space! Whether you are staying on the beach or near the beach, you will want some gear.

There are also a few hotels in Gulf County, Florida, available in the town of Port St. Joe and are an affordable option. There are also a host of well-rated campgrounds throughout the county. Many of the campgrounds offer full hookups for RVs, as well. When you are visiting nature’s playground, why not stay in nature?!

What to do on your family vacation in Gulf County, Florida

Gulf County beaches

The sugary white sand beaches of Gulf County are impeccable. You have quite a few spots to choose from along Cape San Blas to park your car or ride a bike from your rental home. We chose to drive so we could have all of our gear with us. We spent several hours at a time relaxing, playing beach games, and swimming in the ocean. Choose from dozens of beach access points. The 43 miles of shoreline really allows families to spread out.

Do not miss T.H. Stone Memorial St. Joseph Peninsula State Park! With boat ramps, spots for snorkeling, bathroom facilities, and picnic areas, you can spend an entire day enjoying the beach! These are truly the best family beaches on the Gulf coast if you want to have quiet family days together. We had the best afternoon playing games as a family.

Gulf Coast fishing

Gulf County, Florida is an angler’s paradise. Not only can you indulge in gulf coast deep sea fishing, but you can also find incredible in-shore fishing areas in St. Joseph Bay. Florida saltwater fishing is everywhere in this area, and if you just want to try beach fishing from your family spot, that’s great too. We noticed lots of solo fly fishing when the tides were low at sunset. It was a beautiful sight. 

Our family enjoyed a full morning out in St. Joseph Bay doing some in-shore fishing with Captain Pete of Bounty Bay PSJ Charters. Pete provided everything we needed, including fishing rods, reels, and bait. He asked us what kind of experience we wanted and took such great care of us. Because we were only in town for part of a week, we decided we just wanted to have fun and do catch and release. However, if you want to catch to eat, he will make sure he gets you to those spots where you can catch enough for dinner! My daughter had never fished before, so Pete took his time showing her the ropes, and soon enough, she was catching fish like crazy. It was a perfect family morning.

Paddling in Gulf County

If you see a theme here, you’re not wrong. Everything about Gulf County is about getting out on the water. And how could you not? All of the magical moments happen on the water. The colors, salt, and sun just draw you out. We had the most fun with Happy Ours Kayak and Bike Outpost. We spent several hours out on the water with kayaks and SUPs, paddling around St. Joseph Bay, marveling at the manta rays and turtles, and just enjoying each other. The shallow see-through water was bliss, perfect for kids so they can splash around safely while paddling. 

You can also rent bikes to ride along the Loggerhead Trail all the way up and down Cape San Blas. My kids were getting a bit angry, so we skipped the bikes, but wished we had gotten up earlier to enjoy them. Such is life with teenagers! Happy Ours will provide all the gear you need, and you can even have bikes delivered to where you are staying!

Where to eat in Gulf County, Florida

Gulf County has a little bit of everything in terms of restaurants, so we tried it all! Favorite dinner spots included Indian Pass Raw Bar for a fun and fabulous raw bar experience. The food was outstanding, but don’t miss out on the outdoor lawn games and live music scene. We also loved Longbill’s after a full day at the state park. They offer delicious fried pickles and a good mix of seafood and American dishes. For an evening in the town of Port St. Joe, make your way to Quatro Locos Mexican restaurant for outdoor dining. Afterward enjoy a walk to the Port St. Joe lighthouse and an unforgettable sunset.

We did lunch on the fly because we were so busy enjoying our time outdoors. In Port St. Joe, check out Joe Mama’s Wood Fire Pizza for a hearty salad or pizza. Out on Cape San Blas make a quick stop in Scallop Cove Store for a bite from the grill and stock up on other snacks and souvenirs. We enjoyed our burgers and hot dogs at a picnic area at Cape Palms Park, right near the beach access. 

For a big breakfast before setting off for a morning of fishing, we filled up at the Sand Dollar Cafe for a traditional breakfast served in a cafeteria-style buffet. We enjoyed our breakfast outside while we planned our day. Another fun option that is CASH ONLY is Weber’s Donuts on Cape San Blas. Be warned — they will run out of donuts, so plan to arrive early.

Snacks and treats are always a must while on vacation. If you are in town, keep your eyes peeled for Shoobie’s Ice Cream Truck or Sugar Shack. If you are out on Cape San Blas, you can always stop into The Cape Trading Post.

Why a family vacation in Gulf County, Florida is awesome

Ordinary magic happens in places like Gulf County. Your family will enjoy outdoor time together disconnecting and reconnecting in one of the U.S.A.’s most scenic coastal areas. Spend time together away from the grind of home life (and away from the hustle and bustle of touristy areas), while you feel right at home on vacation. Everything is so relaxed while on a family vacation in Gulf County, Florida. At the same time, you will be able to try new things together and get out on the water for some fun.

For us, this was such a vital time away to be together and recharge amidst a very busy season of regular life. Our trip to Gulf County was amazing and we highly recommend this area to any family looking for natural beauty and lots of space to let their child run wild. 

For more info on all the amazing activities and accommodations in Gulf County, check out their website: www.visitgulf.com

Additional travel resources

For more inspiration on family travel, check out these posts and start planning your next getaway:

• Appalachian Mountain Trip
• West Coast Road Trip
• Winter Trip to a Ranch

Would you take a family vacation to Gulf County, Florida?

About the author

Jen has been married to her original adventure partner, John, for 20 years. She is a mama to 3 teenagers who, although they have busy and independent lives, love to adventure in the outdoors when they can. Jen is a native of Chicago, but has lived in South Carolina for two decades and calls it home. She’s always planning the next adventure for herself or her friends, whether near or far. Hiking, kayaking, sailing with her family, or traveling the world is all about the experience and the journey. Her extroverted nature keeps her talking and smiling with anyone she meets along the way. She’s on a mission to show other busy families that traveling with teenagers is possible and fun!

You can find Jen online in the following locations:
Instagram: @gofamilyadventure
Website: Go Family Adventure
RWMC Posts: Jen Barnes

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Fly fishing with kids

Fly fishing has become very popular over the last few years.  It’s a beautiful and peaceful outdoor activity, but it can be intimidating at first. Beginner fly fishermen (and fisherwomen) are sometimes overwhelmed by the variety, abundance, and price of fly fishing gear. It’s hard to know what flies will work best in your area, how to tie knots and where to go fish.

Today, I am here to help answer all these questions and get you started fly fishing with your kids. I’m here to teach you the basics of fly fishing with kids, from gear to casting and reeling in that slithering fish. This post will cover 3 categories: (1) planning your fishing outing; (2) kid-friendly fly fishing gear; and (3) the basics of fly fishing.  

Planning your fly fishing outing

Before you ever set foot in the water, there are a few things you’ll need (and need to know) so that you can plan your fly fishing outing. A little research and knowledge about the activity and your local area will go a long way to making your fly fishing adventure fun and successful. Most of the information below can be found online (check your local conservation department’s website) or from the helpful folks at your local fly fishing shop. 

1. Get a fishing license

It all starts with the basics. If you’re going to fish, you need a fishing license. Do some basic research on what’s required to fish on your state’s website regarding fishing rules and regulations (fish and game). Most states don’t require a fishing license for kids under a certain age, but it’s important to make sure. But if you’ll also be fishing (or even just helping your kids cast and reel in fish), you’ll need to have one. 

2. Check your conservation department website

Conservation department websites are also a good place to find helpful information on a wide variety of fishing-related things. On your local fish and game website, there will be rules and regulations governing fishing and lots of helpful information, such as:

1. Fish limit (number and size)
2. What types of hooks you can use
3. What type of bait you can use
4. Whether we can keep the fish or we have to catch & release it
5. Designated fishing areas
6. Resources (casting videos, fly tying basics, etc.)
7. Fishing ethics
8. Fishing tips
9. Recipes (and how to clean and prepare fish for eating)
10. Fishing events (classes, meet-ups, lessons, etc.)

It’s super important to make sure you follow these rules (and teach kids to do the same) to protect our wildlife population and the sport of fishing.  This is a great topic to educate our kids so they learn to respect the wild and the rules our conservation departments and forest services have set in place. Lead by example and be a role model for your future little fishermen. 

Fly fishing gear for kids

Choosing the right fly fishing gear for kids can be intimidating (and expensive). However, for the most part, kids learning how to fly fish can usually use their parents’ gear. With the exception of waders/boots and clothing, there aren’t a lot of items that need to be specially geared towards children. That being said, giving a child their own fishing gear that’s their size and they’re proud of is a great way to get kids interested in going fishing.  This post will cover the basic gear you need to get started fly fishing with kids.

Kid-friendly fly fishing gear

Again, starting out can be a bit intimidating but if you head to your local outdoor or fishing store, experts can help you choose the best equipment for your skill level. Here are a few of our favorite recommendations for kid-friendly fly fishing gear. 

• Fly rod and reel
• Fishing net
• Water shoes or waders
• Hat
• Sunglasses (for eye protection and polarized to help spot fish)
• Sunscreen
• Bug spray
• Fly pack
  • fly box
  • flies (see below)
  • pliers
  • nippers
  • floatant
  • tippet
  • strike indicators
• Life jacket

How to fly fish with kids

With fly fishing, it’s all about the movement of the fly or bait. We don’t sit in a chair while waiting for a strike on a distant bobber. There’s not a lot of downtime. It’s constant movement and angles and a million different shots. It’s trial and error and retrial. 

The art of fly fishing is making a successful cast, matching the water speed with a good drift, and mimicking your fly of choice on the water. It’s part art, part science, and part sport. This is what makes fly fishing so much fun! We are constantly moving around the river or riverbank, casting into different areas, and waiting for the bite! It’s non-stop, which makes it so much fun for kids (and adults), as you’re constantly on the move and actively fishing.

The basics of casting

The easiest way to picture a successful cast begins with an image of a clock. Consider 12 o’clock as right above your head. The fly rod is taken back to the 2 o’clock position in a “brisk” backcast, then take a slight pause as the fly line straightens out behind you. Next, make a “brisk” forward cast stopping at the 10 o’clock position to cast the line out in front of you. During the cast, it is important to keep the tip of the rod up.

How to choose the right fly

Fly fishing is different than “normal” fishing. Instead of using live bait, fly fishing uses artificial flies that replicate actual insects that fish eat in their environment. Knowing what’s local, what’s in season, and what fish will eat requires some research.

There are flies, worms, eggs, and even small fish replicas that we use in fly fishing. Several types of flies can be used year-round, while others are more season-specific. I recommend heading to your local fly shop or sporting goods store to purchase the specific flies you’ll need in your area. A fly shop will help you get to know what’s working well at the time and can make some recommendations based on where you’ll be fishing.

Sometimes, figuring out what the fish are eating is as easy as looking along the river banks or under rocks. You might be surprised to learn how easy it is to determine what bugs, insects, and larvae are active at the time, and find a fly that replicates what’s hatching or abundant.

The science behind choosing the fly

Another great way to learn what type of fliy to use is to go out into the river, pick up a big rock, and look on the bottom of it for insects. This is the perfect way to see what insects are in season (aka “hatching”) and what the fish are eating. Here, my husband grabbed a rock from the river we were fishing and underneath it, a stonefly appeared!

This is such a fun part of fishing to teach our kids! It’s about observation and discovery. It’s about getting to know your area and doing a little science experiment to figure out what’s working. Our little guy loves his dad’s “bug box” as he calls it. He picks the flies up individually and asks bug/insect each one is and then we try to find a live specimen and match them up.

Different types of flies for fly fishing

• Dry flies (parachute adams, elk hair caddis, blue wing olive, stimulator)
• Nymphs (hare’s ear, pheasant tail, prince nymph)
• Streamers (woolly bugger, mickey finn, muddler minnow)
• Wet flies
• Eggs
• Worms

Sink or swim

It’s important to know which flies are designed to float on the surface of the water and which flies should sink. Floating flies are mimicking a flying insect landing on the water’s surface. This requires us to apply floatant, which aids in the fly’s ability to remain on the surface of the water.

Your first goal when casting is having the fly land softly on top of the water, similar to how an insect would land. Then, the line and fly both drift at the same speed the water is flowing. If your fly line drifts faster than your fly, you may need to “mend” your line, which means gently whipping the line back a bit to allow the fly to drift naturally (without the fly line pulling it or scaring the fish off). During the drift, a nearby fish may look to the surface and see your fly. Suddenly, it begins to rise believing that a real insect is up for grabs and takes a bite!

If you are using a worm or even an egg pattern, you’ll want to allow this type of bait to sink beneath the surface. Then you allow the current to move your fly down the stream, hopefully right in front of a fish waiting for it! You may want to put a strike indicator on your child’s line so they can tell if/when they get a bite (this is kind of like a bobber). You can never go wrong using a worm or egg pattern, since most popular fishing spots for kids are fished using these types of bait. 

How to tie on your flies

Where to cast

Fish are smart when it comes to where they hang out in the water while waiting for their food. Look for these areas to cast your fly. 

• Shallow/shady pockets of water
• Where you see bubbles (oxygen=fish!)
• Sides of running water
• In front of rocks with water running down like a small waterfall
• Behind rocks or logs (fresh like a break from fighting the current)

Bites! How to reel in a fish

Now we’re ready for the fun part! When you feel that tug on your line or see your strike indicator submerge underwater, you know you have your catch! Now it’s time to hood and land your fish! Easier said than done.

To get a good hook set, quickly lift up on your fly rod to create tension, thus “setting the hook.” Maintain tension on the line with one hand, while you use the other to reel in your line. During this time, you can also use the drag setting on your reel to make things easier. A second option is to simply pull the line in without using the reel. Hold the line tight with the hand holding the rod and let it slip through your fingers as you pull the line with the other hand.

When you get the fish close, grab your net and position it downstream from your fish. Slowly pull or reel the fish in towards it and you got your catch! Gently remove the hook and remember to keep the fish wet at all times. As long as it’s not super hot, you can lift it out of the water for a super quick photo and then right back in. Don’t forget to enjoy the moment!

He was stoked when he helped reel this bad boy in!

They were excited to share the fish and hold them in the net

Releasing the fish

There is a proper way to release fish back into the water if you decide not to keep it for food. When you take fish out of the river to admire their beauty and take a photo, it’s important to remember time is critical. Don’t leave them out of the water to where they become stressed and deprived of oxygen. Out and back into the water as quickly as possible.

When you are ready to let the fish go, use your pliers to remove the hook from their mouth. Next, gently place them back in the water facing upstream so that the water flows into their mouth and through their gills. Hold them and allow them to re-energize and swim out of your hand. They may be slow at first and even in a bit of a shock, but after a few seconds, they should start to move their tail and will swim away. Don’t ever throw a fish back into the water, as this could kill the fish.

Fly fishing fish species

You can pretty much fly fish for any kind of fish: bass, catfish, saltwater fish, bluegill, trout, carp, etc. All of the tips above can be applied to any kind of fish.

My family and I fly fish for trout only. Today, I will describe the different species of trout native to New Mexico. Trout are our favorite type of fish, not only for their beautiful colors and patterns, but their deliciousness! Who doesn’t love some fish tacos?

Trout can be native to your location or stocked by local farms or conservation departments. Trout love cold water, so they’re more prevalent in cold-water streams. There are many different varieties of trout and they look different. you can catch one or multiple types based on your location.

We love when we catch different species of trout in one location, and it’s even more enjoyable teaching our kiddo the different names. We let him hold the fish and show him the different patterns and colors. He has learned how to gently hold a fish and even release it back into the water properly. Kids learn to love what they can touch, feel and experience. Fly fishing has given him an amazing opportunity to do just that!

Rainbow Trout: Distinct pink stripe along the body

Brown trout: Distinct red spots along the body

Cutthroat: Similar pattern to a rainbow trout, but has red cheeks and red jawline

Trial and error/patience

Fly fishing is all about trial and error. It’s important to be patient when starting out and to teach our kids the same. Fly fishing can require us to try several different types of flies, casts, and sections of water until we find the right one. Knots happen. Tangles happen. Flies are lost. Somtimes you’ll spend more time untangling line than actually fishing. It’s all part of the process. 

Fly fishing also requires a lot of moving, walking up and down the river, trying new spots and new shots. If your little one is too young to walk, consider a carrier or a backpack (we’ve used both). If your child’s old enough, you can practice cast with them every now and then. 

Keep your fly fishing outings light-hearted with no pressure. When your kids start to get frustrated or super wiggly, stop and do something else. Working with young children on casting basics and letting them experience catching fish on a fly rod are great at any age. The most important thing is to make it fun so they don’t get frustrated and completely give up before they’re patient enough to really enjoy it.

Leave no trace

Fishing is so much fun, especially when our kids’ eyes grow wide in amazement and they learn to love the sport. It’s important we teach our kids how to protect the fish and rivers. This is all starts with leaving no trace. Teaching our kiddos the importance of “pack out what you pack in”, cleaning up trash, and leaving the wild, wild. 

Fishing with your kids is an incredible way to teach them about nature and conservation. From the “circle of life” lesson that comes with using live bait to the “leave no trace” principle of cleaning up after people, fishing is a way that parents can instill a love of nature and a respect for the environment from a very early age. There are so many little ways to encourage your kids to appreciate the outdoors through fishing. Whether it’s by respecting the fish you catch (and keeping only what you’ll eat) to respecting the fish’s habitat. Teaching your kids to fish helps preserve our natural resources.

For more fish fun

If you’re interested in learning more about fishing with kids, be sure to check out a few of our other posts:

• Raising Kids that Love to Fish
• Fly Fishing with Kids
• Winter Crabbing with Kids
• Fly Fishing Location: Dry Run Creek, Arkansas

Have you ever taking your kids fly fishing?

About the author

Lea is a dedicated wife, adventurous mother, Registered Nurse, and Army veteran. She is from New Mexico and strives each and every day to get outside with her wild toddler and newborn baby girl. She and her husband Brandon both served 8 years in the Army and it was during that time their love for the outdoors and seeing the world was born. When they had their son, that passion only intensified. They love to fly fish, overland in their Jeep, hike, surf, and capture these moments on camera. Lea is a professional photographer on the side and you can always catch her with her camera in her hand. Their goal is to influence more families in their rural state of New Mexico to explore the beauty of the SW while educating them on photography tips, medical tips like First Aid, and outdoor safety and gear, etc. 

You can find Lea online in the following locations:
Instagram: @wildstokefam
Website: Wild Stoke Fam
RWMC posts: Lea

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Winter crabbing with kids

Are you looking for a fun winter activity to do with your kids beachside? Are your kids into catching dinner? Let’s go CRABBING! Because there’s nothing quite as amazing as fresh crab with a side of BUTTER, right? Yes, please!

One of our favorite winter activities is crabbing along the California Coast. Crabbing is a fun and easy activity for the entire family.  It’s a great way to get outside and catch some dinner while burning some energy, enjoying the fresh air, and taking in the scenery of the glorious coast. Going on a winter crab hunt makes for a fun day trip or a weekend camping adventure. We oftentimes crab hunt while camping and there is nothing like taking a bucket of crab back to our campsite, cooking it up over an open fire pit and enjoying it dipped in warm butter and a squeeze of fresh lemon! 

I am no expert on crabbing, but will do my best to walk you through the basics!

Crabbing license & regulations

Crabbing equipment & supplies

Rod holders help prop up the fishing rod while you wait for the big catch.  Our boy sitting by the ocean and waiting for the bite…

Catching crab using crab pots

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Overcoming the challenge of getting kids outside

2020 has been a hard year in so many ways. The challenge of spending time outdoors right now is compounded by the COVID-19 pandemic, pervasive wildfires, diminished air quality, and more. With education shifting towards an online and virtual format, kids are spending their days inside and in front of a screen. Plenty of education and mental health professionals (and parents) are concerned about the long-term effects of remote learning environments. Now more than ever, it’s important to ensure that children have opportunities to spend time playing outside and in the fresh air.

Being cooped up and inside the house has the opposite effect of being outdoors. Between obesity and Vitamin D deficiency, not to mention higher stress levels, spending too much time indoors is detrimental to a child’s physical and mental well-being. If society’s goal is to raise healthy and happy kids, then it’s time to unplug, power down devices, and head outside. We owe it to our kids to give them the benefits of nature and outdoor play time.

Character-building benefits of being outdoors

So what’s a parent to do right now? In the era of virtual learning, the lure of electronics is strong. Screens provide kids constant new information, a changing view, and countless things to do. But guess what…so does being outside! As parents, it’s our job to take the lead and demonstrate that outdoor activity is a non-negotiable, essential activity.

Start small, but make outdoor time a priority. Don’t give up after a few minutes or the first time your child says they’re bored. Boredom means that they’re going to have to get creative! After a while, kids will begin to develop new habits, start thinking outside the box and reap all of the benefits that come from playing outside. Benefits include physical exercise, lower stress levels, better temperaments, better sleep habits and lower anxiety.

Playing outdoors also helps to build character. Certain intangible qualities can be fostered thru particular character-building outdoor activities. From confidence and resilience to respect and kindness towards others, these are things that children can develop by playing outside. 

We are builders of our own characters. We have different positions, spheres, capacities, privileges, different work to do in the world, different temporal fabrics to raise; but we are all alike in this, — all are architects of fate.”
John Fothergill Waterhouse Ware

Exploring, bouldering & climbing trees

During a child’s formative years, they learn about their relationship to their physical environment. They learn about their limits and how to push past them. Kids learn how to take risks, problem-solve, compromise and overcome obstacles. Character-building outdoor activities such as exploring, bouldering, and climbing trees are a few easy ways to get children moving and taking healthy risks. Other than a good pair of shoes, water, and sun protection, these activities do not require much equipment and don’t need a lot of planning. They just need a parent willing to get them outside and let them play!

When kids explore, they are fueling their curiosity about new places and things. Exploring allows kids the opportunity to build confidence and courage as they work through frustrations and challenges. Figuring things out builds problem-solving skills and promotes independence. This teaches kids that they can tackle bigger challenges the next time they encounter them.

Hiking, backpacking & fishing

Fostering a love and appreciation for nature is just one of the benefits of being outside. Hiking, backpacking, and fishing are three activities that require minimal equipment and can lead to lifelong loves of these activities and the outdoors. Each activity helps to teach survival skills. They also bring real-life science and ecology lessons to life so kids can learn about ecosystems and where their food comes from. They turn kids into tiny naturalists that instinctively want to protect their planet and the nature around them. 

But beyond these practical skills, activities like hiking, backpacking, and fishing are character-building outdoor activities as well. Through these activities, kids learn patience, perseverance, diligence, and resilience. To land a fish, kids have to wait and be patient until they get a bite. To go the distance on a trail, kids have to put in the effort step-by-step and be tenacious. With each activity, there are sure to be challenges; overcoming adversity and doing hard things helps to develop resilience and grit. 

Youth sports, water sports & bike riding

There are plenty of benefits of playing sports that are reason enough to encourage kids to run, jump, and play outside. Physical benefits include reducing the risk of obesity, increased cardiovascular fitness, and the healthy development of bones and muscles. But outdoor activities like youth sports, water sports, and riding a bike have character-building benefits as well. 

Kids who are drawn to the camaraderie or competition of sports will cultivate certain character-building traits. When children participate in sports they learn social skills like sharing, respect for others, communication, teamwork, and self-advocacy. Youth sports expose children to situations that help foster these important social skills. 

While swimming is regarded as a life skill, it has character-building benefits, too. The adage sink or swim helps to illustrate that a person must succeed by their efforts or fail. Waterborne kids learn to be attentive and hardworking if they want to stay afloat, both in the water and in life.

Cycling is another great character-building outdoor activity for kids to engage in to reap all of the physical, mental and emotional benefits of being outdoors. Developing proficiency in bike riding is not only a rite of passage but a way for kids to be independent. For kids to take their two-wheel adventures away from home, they have to prove their trustworthiness and demonstrate responsibility. They also learn skills such as navigation, awareness, and observation.

Programs that encourage outdoor time

It’s never too early to encourage children to reap the character-building benefits of being outdoors. If you’re looking for a program that encourages outdoor adventures and character-building activities, check out Wonder Club Explorers. I created Wonder Club Explores a few years ago to encourage my child to explore outdoors. It’s an independent scouting program for young children where they earn merit patches by completing nature-inspired activities.  We’ve found that kids are delighted to get outdoors and love the bonus of earning a patch that they can proudly display. Parents love that we help facilitate activities and give them a reason to get outside and play.

Older kids looking to socially distance and be physical at the same time might consider forming an outdoor physical education pod to stay active once “virtual school” lets out. Outdoor playdates and scheduled activities give parents some help and accountability in prioritizing outdoor time for their kids. Find a few families with children your kids’ ages and schedule a meet-up! Make it a weekly (daily?) thing and watch as your kids gain independence and confidence week after week by playing outside.  

Build character through outdoor activities

There are any number of ways to encourage the fun of outdoors without making it seem like it’s a chore or something kids ought to do. Whether you’re doing any of the character-building outdoor activities mentioned above or simply letting your kid run around outside and be free, the physical, mental, and emotional benefits of outdoor activity are clear.  They far outweigh any obstacles, difficulties and drawbacks, especially when outside play is approached with the happiness and spirit that comes with being a kid. Now more than ever, we hope you’ll find ways to encourage your kids to get outside and play. 

About the author

Michelle spends her days working on projects to improve the quality of life for the citizens of her community and her nights reading books to her 6 year-old about every kind of dinosaur there ever was (there are 900 validated species, in case you’re wondering). Together with her son, Michelle created Wonder Club Explorers, a company to inspire wonder and curiosity in kids. She carves out time for herself on the weekends as an early morning exerciser and metalsmith of fine jewelry. She resides in Altadena with her husband and son amongst California Oak trees and a stone’s throw of the San Gabriel Mountains.

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California coast tidepools

Tidepools are one of the main attractions along the California coastline. Sprinkled all along Highway 1, you’re sure to find these beautiful gems throughout. Some of the best tidepools can be found along the Mendocino Coast, Monterey, Big SUR, Cambria, and all the way down throughout Southern California. The Central Coast (the area roughly spanning the coastal region between Point Mugu and Monterey Bay) is a family favorite with amazing tidepools. The Carmel Coast tidepools are pictured here.  

The best time of day to visit a tidepool

The best time to visit a tidepool is low tide when the water levels are calm and at their lowest. Low tide gives you more tidepools to discover and lets you explore much further out on the beach. You can take a look at a “tide table” in your area to find low tide times of day and make the most of your visit. Tide tables are handy charts with helpful low and high tide information. We recommend going just before low tide to give yourself the maximum amount of time to explore the tidepools. Start inland and work your way out as the tide recedes. But make sure to keep your eye on the tide and what the water is doing. Stay safe and come back inland as the tide starts to rise. 

Tidepool safety tips

Tidepools are so much fun, but it’s important to take a few precautions to ensure your kids are safe. Water (and the ocean in particular) can be dangerous and safety should be a top priority when exploring tidepools. Always be mindful of ocean currents and waves. Keep an eye on the time, the tides, and the water level. Never leave littles unattended. Rocks can be slippery, especially when covered in seaweed, so be extra careful when walking around on rocky beaches.  Water shoes with good grip are always a good idea, but if your kids are anything like mine barefoot is their shoe of choice. Remind them to watch their step and not step directly into water where they can’t see the bottom (and know what they’re stepping on).

For the safety of the animals in the tidepool, I like to remind my kids to be delicate when picking up any sea creatures. If you can observe without touching, that’s even better (but not always preferred for kids – they love a hands-on experience). If they do pick up something, always put it back where they found it. Advise them to never pull or remove animals attached to rocks or the sand. These should be observed just as they are – and that’s fun too! 

Tidepool seashells 

My kids love finding and playing with seashells in tidepools. Most of the shells we find belong to snails – periwinkle snails, whelk snails, unicorn whelk – mussels or oysters. Teach the kids to observe them, enjoy them (very gently) and then leave them behind for the next person to enjoy. We try to remain mindful of the impact we have when visiting these gorgeous places. We tread lightly and are careful not to trample on these tiny creatures. Most seashells we find are still occupied by little creatures that are still alive so they need to remain in their home. However, if we find an empty shell, I’ll let the kids keep one. We love collecting them, sorting them by shape and color. It really is one of our favorite activities.  

Tidepool treasures

When you explore tidepools, you’ll find so many treasures to uncover. From tiny little snails to great big ones like the abalone that lived in this shell. From colorful sea glass to beautiful seashells. Rocks of every shape, size and color. Crabs and claws, urchin and anemones. Sea stars, slugs, sand dollars, and sculpin. Algea and octopus! In a tidepool, even the sand is interesting!

Bring along a book or a printable guide that helps you and your kids identify your finds. Get to know the animals and plants in your area and the distinctions between them all. We can spend hours turning over each rock and observing the little creatures. Our kids love the thrill of exploring each tidepool. What will we find…a snail, crab, clam, oyster, starfish? You never know! There’s so much to learn from exploring a tidepool and it’s why we love the California coast so much. The opportunity to explore and learn about nature is priceless. 

Slowing down

Exploring tidepools at low tide gives us an opportunity to uncover endless possibilities.  Look under each rock and you will be amazed at what you will find. Move seaweed aside and peer into crevices. Find craters in the sand or rock with trapped sea creatures. Dig in the sand and see what you can find. Exploring the tidepools always seems to slow us down and make us take notice of all the amazing things around us. I love that our kids stare at everything with such intent. They are so calm and interested while observing. It’s obvious that they’re learning and thinking and uncovering new ideas. They ask great questions and engage all their senses. In a busy and overscheduled world, it is so important to slow down and enjoy the little things.  Tidepooling gives us that opportunity.

Hike it, baby

Hiking is another family-favorite activity and the California coast is an incredible place to hike. We love a good trail that ends the hike down at the beach with some fun at a tidepool. Just the anticipation of going tidepooling gives the kids something to look forward to and helps us power through a hike. Point Lobos State Nature Reserve in Monterey County not only offers an incredible opportunity to hike along a breathtaking trail, but you can also break to explore some really amazing tidepools. This is one of our favorite hiking trail that leads to tidepools. 

Learning made fun

Exploring the California coast tidepools is a great way to expose kids to marine life and get them interested in the wide variety of aquatic plants and animals. Tidepools have the power to really unleash a child’s curiosity! Exploring a tidepool is a great hands-on full-body way to learn and connect kids to our environment. We enjoy (and highly encourage) any and all questions that come our way. We love talking about what causes a tide, how the moon and sun play a role. Why is there a low and high tide? Why are some animals protected by a shell and not others? What’s the difference between these types of animals? Why the different colors, shapes of sizes? So many questions and so much to learn in a super fun environment! And if we don’t know the answers, we discuss our theories and then look them up when we get home!

Cliffs and more

California coast tidepool adventures are not only about the tidepools. When exploring the California coast, you’ll find so many other amazing sites and things to do. The topography along the California shoreline is incredible. The bluffs and cliffs, the rocks, the crashing waves and the gorgeous beaches. Along the Mendocino Coast, you will find an array of tide pools right alongside some really gorgeous cliffs. You can hike/climb down to the shore and admire all the beautiful flowers on the cliffs. There are dramatic coastal views filled with lush turquoise water all along this coastline. This area is filled with beautiful sleepy little coastal towns, farms and lighthouses, as well. Go for the tidepools, but make sure to check out other natural attractions and sites in the area, as well. 

California coast tidepools

I hope this post inspires you to get out and explore the tidepools along the California coastline. There are so many different experiences you can have in so many various locations. The scenery and the finds are different every time you go. Exploring tidepools with the kids never seems to get old. California tidepools offer a wealth of diverse marine and aquatic life that’s sure to please kids of any age. Get them interested in nature – get them in a tidepool!

About the author

Araceli is a wife and momma to three wild and adventurous littles. She believes that nature and free play are truly the foundation for a beautiful childhood. Araceli and her husband make it a priority to raise their children with a strong bond to the great outdoors. She’s a working mom with an extensive career in Project Management. She’s creative, crafty and loves collecting houseplants. As a family, they love exploring wild places and she loves documenting their adventures.

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Teaching kids to fly fish

It’s only natural for parents that fly fish to dream of having their child become their favorite fishing buddy. And while that may eventually happen (20-30 years from now), it takes a lot of work, patience and many years to turn a wild child into a patient fisherman. It’s about a strong connection with nature first, then making fishing fun by any means, and finally, learning how to fly fish. We’ve been fly fishing with our kids since before they could walk. Here’s how we’ve nurtured and developed their love for the sport, as well as fostered a conservation mindset and strengthened their love for nature.

Fly fishing starts with plain old regular fishing

Teaching kids to fly fish starts with teaching a child how to fish with a plain old regular push-button or spinning rod and enjoying time spent outside on the water. Little kids don’t necessarily enjoy the process of fishing – they enjoy catching! And they enjoy looking for cool bugs and snakes, skipping rocks, exploring the pond/stream, eating a picnic lunch and spending quality time outside with you.

Set kids up for fishing success

If you want kids to love fishing right off the bat, you need to set them up for success. While adults may love the peace and serenity of a quiet day fishing, kids want action! Even the most focused kid will get bored if there are no bites or catches. Start kids off by fishing with a small spinning rod in a local stocked pond for fish that are easy for kids to catch (bluegill, sunfish, bass). The more fish available to catch, the greater your chances. Adults may be willing to wait all day for that one giant fish, but kids would rather catch 50 little fish as fast as possible.

Make fishing fun for kids

Use live bait, if you can. This not only entices the fish, but keeps kids interested. If possible, don’t buy your bait, but help your kids catch it! That’s half the fun for most kids, and sometimes more fun than the fishing itself. More often than not, our kids are way more interested in playing with worms, shrimp, crickets, grasshoppers and minnows than actually fishing.

Put a bobber on their line. This helps them visually know when they’re getting a bite. If your kids are little, use smaller fishing poles that are easier for their small hands. Give them your 100% undivided attention, which they’ll remember, even if they don’t catch a thing. And when they do catch a fish, make sure you yell and clap like crazy! If they see you lose your mind over catching a fish, they’re definitely going to want to do it again!

For more on this, see our post on how to raise kids that love to fish.

What age kids should start fly fishing?

Like many generic answers about the right time to try anything, the answer to when you should start teaching a kid how to fly fish is…it depends. A lot of people will tell you not to start teaching kids to fly fish until they are between eight and ten years old. That’s about the time kids’ attention spans lengthen and patience develops so that they can fish in a serious way. However, every child is different.

Our oldest son started fly fishing with dad when he was two years old. He could cast pretty well by four years old. Now, at seven, he’s learning to tie his own flies and knots and can fish on his own for decent periods of time. Our daughter, on the other hand, is five and doesn’t have the patience or focus to fly fish beyond a few casts here and there. But, she loves being outside on the water with us, chasing butterflies and catching crawdads. Every kid is different and you know your child best.

Take them fishing with you

No matter what age your kids are, feel free to take them along on your casual fishing outings. That way they can watch you fish, get excited about catching a fish and spend time with you in nature. If your little one is too young to walk, consider a carrier or a backpack (we’ve used both). If your child’s old enough, you can practice cast with them every now and then. Keep it light-hearted with no pressure. When they start to get frustrated or super wiggly, stop and do something else. Working with young children on casting basics and letting them experience catching fish on a fly rod are great at any age. The most important thing is to make it fun so they don’t get frustrated and completely give up before they’re patient enough to really enjoy it.

Practice a cast

If you think it’s time to introduce your child to fly fishing, start by teaching them the basics of casting. We recommend practice casting off the water because then it’s really about practicing and not about catching fish. Spend some time in your backyard, driveway or at the local park practicing casting with your child. Use a leader that’s no longer than 8 feet and tie something light (with no hook) to the end to mimic a fly. Choose a spot to cast to or set up a target/indicator so they know exactly where to cast.

Make a few casts in front of them to show them how it’s done. Explain that for a fly cast to work, they will need to stop the tip of the rod up high on the forward and backward casts to allow the line to shoot accurately. Show them how to keep your wrist locked, your elbow moving on a flat surface and punch forward with their thumb. Next, let them have a few turns on their own.  Introduce a cadence or rhythm and give them something to say out loud as they cast—for example, “front, back, front, back.”

Provide gentle guidance

After a few attempts on their own, next, help them out by standing/kneeling behind them and gently guiding their cast. Kids can learn fly casting very quickly by feeling someone else make the cast while holding the rod. With your child holding the fly rod in one hand, place your hand over theirs on the rod and make the cast for them. Finally, let them try on their own again.

If you can get thirty minutes with them holding a fly rod and getting used to how it feels, you’ve done well! Be very patient and verbally reward them when they do well, make improvement or hit the target. Kids love to receive positive approval from adults, their parents.

Keep fishing trips short & fun

When your kids first start fishing (fly fishing or otherwise), let them set the pace. Kids learn best by discovering in their own way and on their own time. Let your child fish for as long as he or she stays interested (probably about 30 minutes for kids under 7). Never push a kid to keep going when they’re obviously done. At this point, it’s more about making it fun for them than anything else. We know it’s hard, but try to avoid fishing yourself on some of these outings and resist the urge to show them how to do it over and over. Once is enough and then hand the rod over. And when they’d rather skip rock in the water or hunt for frogs, by all means, take a break!

Get others involved

There is absolutely no harm in letting someone else help teach your child how to fly fish. It’s particularly hard for older kids and teenagers (or even adults) to take instruction from their parents. If you have a child that wants to learn, but gets frustrated with you as their teacher, get help from a friend or relative that fly fishes. Hire a guide for a day. Or sign them up for a lesson, class or camp. Sometimes all kids need to put everything together is for someone else to show or tell them how to do something (even if it’s the exact same advice you’ve been giving them).

Another way to get others involved is to let your child bring a friend along. Sometimes kids can teach each other lessons or learn things together better than individually. Maybe it’ll spark some healthy competition between them to see who can cast more accurately or the farthest. And then, when their attention is spent, they’ll have someone to explore with or help them dig for worms.

A few other fly fishing suggestions

No matter what age or skill level your child is, there are some other things you can do to ensure the fishing outing is a success (even if you don’t catch any fish). Here are few additional ways to keep your kids safe, happy and entertained:

• Pack lots of snacks and a cooler full of drinks
• Use kid-friendly bug spray and sunscreen
• Dress kids comfortably and pack extra clothes in case they get cold or wet
• Choose fishing spots with a playground nearby or a place where kids can catch frogs/minnows/crickets
• Always bring along a spinning rod or push button rod (in addition to the fly rod)

Best fly fishing gear for kids

For the most part, kids learning how to fly fish can usually use their parents’ gear. With the exception of waders/boots and clothing, there aren’t a lot of items that need to be specially geared towards children. However, giving a child their own fishing gear that’s their size and they’re proud of is a great way to get kids interested in going fishing.

Choosing a fly rod for kids

Because their motor skills are not yet developed, and because they don’t have the diligence necessary to care for expensive rods appropriately, it can be daunting to find an appropriate fly rod for a child. You want a fly rod that is strong yet flexible, inexpensive but not cheap quality.

Most child fly rods are designed for kids aged six to nine. If your child is older or will be fishing beyond those years, it’s probably best to go with a “beginner” fly rod, as opposed to a “child” fly rod. Many fly rods designed for children are made of flimsy plastic that easily breaks or cracks. However, don’t go all out on an expensive overly-delicate fly rod. Kids can be hard on gear and you don’t want something that will break the first time your child trips or walks it into a tree (because it will happen). Constantly worrying about your kid handling and transporting expensive equipment will also kill your enjoyment of the overall experience and turn you into a nervous wreck.

Choose a fly rod that’s limber and not too long

The first and most important quality of choosing a fly rod for your child is finding a rod that is not too stiff or long. A limber lightweight action rod will allow your child to feel the rod load. This leads to a much quicker grasp on the proper timing and casting technique. A shorter rod may not necessarily help a child learn to cast better, but will weigh less and eliminate some extra weight for the child’s young arms while they’re learning to cast. A long rod will also increase the likely hood of it interacting with trees, bushes, your face, and anything else within the range of the new angler’s casting, so shorter can save you time and hassle.  Between 7-8 feet is the ideal rod length for a child to start fly fishing.

Best weight fly rod for kids

A 5 or 6 weight fly rod is the norm for adults who fly fish on lakes/ponds and small streams. However, the majority of children will find rods of this size too long, heavy and unwieldy to cast (especially for kids under 10). We recommend starting with a 3 or 4 weight rod for children. This is the ideal fly rod size for kids to fish on most ponds, lakes or shallow streams. Plus you add feel when fighting a fish.  Pair it with a nice light reel and a good fly line and you’re ready to go.

Kids fly rod recommendations

We started our kids off fly fishing with a 7’6” three-weight made by Temple Fork Outfitters.  It’s the perfect bluegill rod and works for trout and smaller bass.  It’s also not going to break the bank or be a huge disaster if it gets broken. Our recommendation for the best fly rod and reel for kids:

• TFO Rod / Reel Combo, 7’6” three weight

If you have a fly shop nearby, a lot of them will let your child try out a few rods before you buy one. Many places will let your kid test cast with a few different rods to see which one they like best. Some places will even give you a free casting or fly tying lesson when you buy from their shop! Shopping local not only supports your local fly fishing business, but provides lots of opportunities to meet like-minded people and learn new things about your local fishing areas.

Best fly line to use when teaching kids to fly fish

As I mentioned above, when teaching a child how to cast a fly rod, they often find it tricky to feel the weight of the fly line loading the rod. One common technique to help with this is to use fly line one (or even two) line weights heavier. For example, if you have a four-weight rod, use a five weight line. This “over-lining” technique is ideal if the kid is making shorter casts since won’t need to get a lot of line in the air to make a cast. Once your child has their timing mastered, you can drop the line back to the manufacturer-recommended weight for their rod.

Best fishing waders for kids

There are only a handful of companies that make really durable and quality waders for kids. We love the toddler and children’s neoprene waterproof fishing waders by OAKI. Their child-sized waders are made of 90D nylon, which are completely waterproof, but still breathable. The nylon is soft to the touch and the waders are very lightweight, which makes them easier for kids to walk around in and easier for us to pack. They have a full rubber boot, completely neoprene-lined, with a great tread, so no need to buy separate boots. The straps are adjustable and they come in sizes starting as small as 2T, all the way up to 14/15. Plus, Oaki’s customer service is great. If you ever have an issue, they will take good care of you.

Head over to Oaki.com and use the code RWMC15 to save 15% on anything in the store!

Polarized fishing glasses for kids

Protective glasses of some kind are absolutely essential for young anglers. Our kids are not allowed to fish without proper protective eyewear and a hat. When it’s sunny our kids love the polarized Babiators sunglasses. We’ve been using this brand of sunglasses since our oldest was 1. They’re amazing. The polarized glasses have anti-glare lenses that help kids see more clearly into the water. The lenses offer 100% UVA and UVB protection. They have flexible rubber frames and impact- and shatter-resistant lenses. They DO NOT break when you bend, twist, or step on them! Trust us, we’ve tried. But my favorite thing – if you lose or break them in the first year, they replace them for free!

Outfitting your kids with flies and boxes

A simple basic bright-colored foam fly box is probably the best type of fly box to get for a child. We like this one from Orvis. That way, if they drop it in the water it’s easy to see and recover. Plus, it will float! Stock your child’s fly box with a few of each of the following basic flies that will catch just about anything:

• Woolly buggers (size 8 and 10) in olive, black and/or white
• San Juan worms in red and pink
• Large (size 12 and 14) pheasant tails
• Egg patterns

Other fly fishing tools and gadgets for kids

There are any number of fun little fly fishing gadgets and tools you can equip your child with, if you want. Most of these items are probably already in your fly pack, so no need to duplicate if you’re always the one tying their knots and attaching their flies. However, once your kid becomes a bit more self-sufficient, consider stocking their fly pack with the following items:

• box of flies
• a pair of nippers
• a small pair of hemostats for de-barbing new flies and unhooking
• some tippet
• leader
• strike indicators
• split shot

Tips for fly fishing with kids

We hope these tips and advice on how teaching kids to fly fish will help prepare and inspire you to get outside with your kids and catch some fish! Keep your expectations low and your rod tip high. Relax, be patient, and let the kids lead. Whether you catch 10 fish or just chase frogs around the water’s edge, spending time together outside will always be worth it.

Do your kids fly fish?
What tips would you add?

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Fly fishing with kids at Dry Run Creek, Arkansas

We recently spent three action-packed days fishing with the kids on Dry Run Creek and now consider ourselves totally spoiled. Not only is it an absolutely gorgeous area with lush canopies and easy access to the water, but the fish were giant! My fly fishing obsessed five year-old caught his fill every day, each bigger than the last. Dare I say, he may have even got bored after a while from catching so many fish! Even the three year-old got in on the action and netted a few, although it was hard to pull her away from feeding the fish in the hatchery and chasing butterflies.

About Dry Run Creek

Flowing from Norfork National Fish Hatchery, Dry Run Creek is .75 miles of spring and hatchery effluent fed, ice-cold, highly-oxygenated water (32 million gallons/day) coming up from below the surface of Lake Norfork. Located alongside the hatchery (home to 2.5 million brown, rainbow and cutthroat trout), Dry Run Creek contains significant numbers of large trout trying to migrate from whence they came.  Amazingly, despite its proximity to the hatchery, Dry Run Creek is not stocked by Arkansas Game & Fish.  Instead, all the fish living in the creek have found their way out of the Norfork River and jumped “the waterfall” to access this trout-nirvana.

Until 1988, Dry Run Creek had been closed for 30 years to all fishing. The Arkansas Game & Fish Commission decided closure of the stream was unnecessary and re-opened it as a catch-and-release, single-hook, artificial-lure fishery for kids under 16 and the handicapped (an Arkansas handicap fishing license is required). Handicap wheelchair-bound individuals may fish from the newly built decks and ramps.

Designed for ultimate fish habitat and growth, Dry Run Creek is open year round to anglers and host to many fishing events and school field trips each year. Children not only have the chance to learn more about trout, but also have a great opportunity to fish for the monsters that lurk in the depths.

Best kids’ fly fishing location

As you can imagine, Dry Run Creek is hog heaven for the fishing-obsessed kid and a great place to get them hooked on fly fishing. The number of trout in the creek is astounding and it’s common to see fish lined up so thick it looks like you could walk across the water using them as stepping stones.

The cold, clear, shallow water allows amazing sight-fishing opportunities, but there are still nooks and crannies to allow the bigger fish to hide. Just because there’s an abundance of fish, doesn’t mean they’re all easy to catch! These fish don’t get this big being careless and fishing here still takes patience and skill.

Trout food sources

The fish in Dry Run Creek thrive on all-natural food sources – sow bugs, scuds, midges, aquatic worms, leaches and an abundance of terrestrial insects.  No protein pellets here! Essentially, Dry Run Creek contains everything that you would find in the Norfork River, but more concentrated. Therefore, the fish are well-fed and have very little reason to ever leave! The creek also contains populations of beaver, mink, muskrat, and other animals that use or live in the stream and add to its biodiversity.

Fish for big trout at Dry Run Creek

Because the stream is well-fed and strictly catch and release, the fish have the chance to get massive. There are scores of rainbow and brown trout over five pounds and trophy trout are the norm here. In December 2005, this “little stream that could” gave up a rainbow trout that may have been bigger than the Arkansas state record (estimated somewhere near 25 pounds) to an 11-year-old angler from Kansas!

Kids can fish for the grand slam of trout

The creek has one of the thickest populations of trout in the world and is possibly the best fly fishing stream in the country for young ones learning how to fly fish. Dry Run Creek is absolutely teaming with rainbow and brown trout, but it also has some brook and cutthroat trout. This means your little one could catch a Grand Slam (four different types of trout), all in one location!

Kids only fishing location

Sorry mom and dad, but Dry Run Creek is strictly for kids. All kids must be with a licensed adult and do the fishing themselves. A certain level of parental teaching is permitted, but only in the direct presence of the child.

The kids fishing should be able to cast, hook up and fight the fish on their own, with limited parental guidance and interaction. Parents can rig the rods, coach the youngster and net the fish, but it is really important that the child actually catch the fish. Arkansas Game and Fish Commission officers frequent the creek and will issue tickets to adults fishing.

But don’t worry, parents – even though you can’t fish, you won’t get bored. There will be so much action with your kids catching fish that you won’t have time to think about all the fish you could be catching. Non-stop fish after fish (and tangle after tangle) will keep everyone in the family entertained, busy and excited for the next one.

Best fly fishing gear for kids

As for fly fishing equipment, a standard 9-foot, 5-weight rod is the ticket.  Light enough to enjoy the pull of the smaller fish and sturdy enough to help control the lunkers when they decide to go for a run.  You’ll want to be careful with your leader and tippet size though.  When the water is stained, you can get away with heavier leaders and tippet (3X and 4X); however, most days the water is crystal clear so consider using the smallest tippet you can get away with. 

(You can find all our favorite fly fishing gear recommendations for kids in this post.)

As for flies, use anything to mimic the trout’s natural diet. We had success with midges, San Juan worms, scuds, and terrestrials, as well as attractor patterns like eggs and stimulators. A strike indicator and split-shot will be necessary when nymphing, and it’s always important to have floatant for your dry flies after they get hammered several times. Make sure you also bring the biggest net you can find. We lost quite a few giant trout at the net because our biggest net wasn’t quite big enough!

What to pack when fly fishing with kids

If your child has waders, bring them. The water is cold and while there are plenty of spots to fish from the bank, with waders they can fish virtually the entire stream. Parents may also want to wear waders and boots in case you need to get in and release hung-up flies and more effectively net the big trout.

Feel free to bring snacks, lunch and a cooler. The stream is less than a mile long, so you’re never too far from your car in the parking lot. There are picnic tables and trash cans scattered along the paths and walkways, so you never have to get off the water.

Tips for photographing catch and release trout

Finally, bring a camera! Dry Run Creek definitely provides opportunities to catch a once-in-a-lifetime fish and you’ll want it documented. Just remember, when you’re taking a picture, handle the fish carefully. Dry Run Creek is a catch-and-release stream and trout must be released immediately after they are caught.  Leave the fish in the net, suspended in the water, until you have removed the hook and have the camera ready.

Handle the fish gently and as little as possible when photographing.  A quick lift out of the water with a firm (but gentle) grasp is all that’s required. Have your child hold the fish out in front of them so you capture that big giant smile on their face. If it’s super hot out, leave the fish in the water (keep them wet). Be sure to fully revive the fish before release.

When to go fly fishing in Dry Run Creek

Dry Run Creek is open year-round, from sunrise to sunset. There’s never a bad season for fishing and there’s lots to do and explore any time of year you visit. The paths and walkways along the creek were recently remodeled, are well-kept, shaded and a very beautiful in any season. The Mountain Home area is beautiful and filled with all kinds of amazing outdoor activities to partake in with kids: hiking, biking, swimming, boating, kayaking, etc. It’s conveniently located right between Norfork Lake and Bull Shoals, making the fishing and water activities prevalent. 

While you’re visiting Dry Run Creek, make sure to check out the Norfork National Fish Hatchery. Feed the trout and take a tour. It is truly a great experience and the kids will love the break in action.

For more information

If you’d like to find more information on Dry Run Creek and the surrounding area, check out the Friends of the Norfolk National Fish Hatchery’s website.

For more info on fly fishing with kids, check out our other posts:

• Teaching Kids to Fly Fish
• Fly Fishing Basics for Kids
• Tips for Raising Kids that Love to Fish

If you’re looking for an awesome place to go fishing with kids,
Dry Run Creek in Mountain Home, Arkansas is definitely worth the trip!

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Our son started fishing at 1 and our daughter had a fly rod in her hand before she could walk. Mac took to fishing surprisingly quick! While he’s full of boundless energy, there’s something about fishing that focuses him. Fishing keeps his attention longer and more intensely than anything else we’ve found. He absolutely loves it. He’s mastered a spinning rod and is quickly perfecting his fly fishing techniques. Mim’s catching on too – she can reel and cast well for a 2 year-old, but her favorite thing to do is pet and hug the fish.

Even if you’re not a die-hard fisherman/fisherwoman (or fishermama), there are things you can do to make the experience enjoyable for kids. Over the last few years I’ve learned a lot about how to get kids to love fishing. I get asked all the time from other parents about how to encourage love fishing. I’ve put together a little list of a few things you can do that I believe will help you raise kids that love to fish!

Make it fun

Perhaps an overly simple piece of advice, but making fishing fun for kids will make them want to do it again. Don’t put too much pressure on kids to catch fish right away. Let them play and explore and if they catch a fish in the meantime, that’s a bonus. Kids have naturally short attention spans, so don’t get frustrated or disappointed if they lose interest after a few minutes. Let them skip rocks, dig for worms, splash in the creek, catch minnows and get dirty. They’ll come back to their fishing poles again and again and for longer lengths of time as they get older. A fishing trip isn’t just about catching fish, it’s a time to reconnect with nature and each other.

Show them how much you love fishing

Kids learn best by watching what their parents do. Sometimes this is a lesson learned the hard way after seeing/hearing my children mimic my words and actions, but with fishing and our love of the outdoors, this is something I can totally get behind them modeling. If your kids see you fishing and loving it, they’ll want to do it, too. Take them fishing often and let them see you enjoying it. Let them see how excited you get when you catch a fish, but also let them see that you don’t get one every time. Let them see how far you cast, but also let them know that your line gets hung up and snagged too.

Set them up for success

When you first start out fishing with kids, they’re going to need a lot of encouragement. If you want them to love fishing, you need to set them up for success right away. While adults may love the peace and serenity of a quiet day fishing, kids want action! Any parent knows that even the most focused kid will get bored if there are no bites or catches. Try to ensure that the first few times you fish with your kids, they’ll catch a fish. Obviously, this is easier said than done, but there are a few things you can do.

First, take them to stocked ponds/rivers with lots of opportunities. The more fish available to catch, the greater your chances. Adults may wait all day for that one giant fish, but kids would rather catch 50 little bluegill. Second, use live bait, if you can. This not only entices the fish, but keeps the kids interested. Sometimes my kids are way more interested in playing with worms and minnows than actually fishing.

Put a bobber on their line, which helps them visually know when they’re getting a bite. If your kids are little, use smaller fishing poles that are easier for their small hands. And at least the first couple times you go fishing, put your own pole down and fish exclusively with them. Give them your 100% undivided attention, which they’ll remember, even if they don’t catch a thing. And when they do catch a fish, make sure you yell and clap and tell them just how amazing they are. If they see you lose your mind over them catching a fish, they’re definitely going to want to do it again!

Use fishing to instill a conservation mindset

Fishing with your kids is an incredible way to teach them about nature and conservation. From the “circle of life” lesson that comes with using live bait to the “leave no trace” principle of cleaning up after people, fishing is a way that parents can instill a love of nature and a respect for the environment from a very early age. There are so many little ways to encourage your kids to appreciate the outdoors through fishing. Whether it’s by respecting the fish you catch (and keeping only what you’ll eat) to respecting the fish’s habitat. Teaching your kids to fish helps preserve our natural resources.

When fishing, take a trash bag with you and pick up any trash or debris you see around rivers, lakes or ponds. While you may not trust your little one to pick up litter, they’ll learn from your example. They’ll take notice of your action and model your behavior in the future. This will encourage them to develop an understanding about why taking care of nature is important. We all want our natural resources to be around for our children, so we need to teach them from an early age how to take care of them.

Be prepared

While my husband was never a Boy Scout, he’s always prepared for anything. He loves gear and has a giant tacklebox full of lures, line, hooks, bobbers, sinkers, nippers. He’s takes care of getting our fishing licenses. He makes sure we’re fishing where we’re suppose to fish, with what we’re suppose to fish with.

But being prepared is much more than having the right gear. He’s prepared to share fun facts about the fish we catch and knowledge about ways to identify local wildlife. He tells stories about the history of the area and jokes about fishing and nature. If the kids are bored with fishing, he can turn our adventure into a nature hike to hunt for mushrooms or arrowheads. He teaches the kids animal calls and shows them how to identify animal tracks. They listen for the different types of bug noises and bird songs. He wants our kids to know that fishing is just a small part of being outdoors and in nature.

Make it theirs

Kids love being able to take ownership for their own gear and their own skills. Get each kid their own cheap plastic fishing pole. Let them practice casting the rubber plug around the house, in the yard or down the driveway. Casting takes a bit of coordination, but kids pick up on it surprisingly fast. They’ll love and take pride in having their own fishing pole take care of. Giving them their own gear releases everyone from fear of them breaking something expensive. I’m pretty sure we’ve gone through a dozen cheap fishing poles, but each one was well-loved, much-used and totally worth it.

Also, give them ownership of their own skills and improvements. Show them how to fish and cast, but stand back and let them do it on their own. Fishing’s a great way to teach kids that practice makes perfect and sometimes it takes a lot of practice to get good at something. Be there to help untangle lines, rebait their hook and offer advice, but let them take ownership in teaching themselves what works for them. They’ll be so proud of themselves and their new skill.

Do your kids love to fish?
What are your tips and advice to raising kids that love to fish?

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